Parents
Nov 6th 2009gregeducation & prayer & sermon seeds & theology
I met with a set of parents today making sure everything was on track for their son. I knew I was going to get contacts after putting the children’s standardized test scores into the online grade book for the appropriate subjects. Some called, most emailed, this family emailed and took the time to come and sit down in person.
Then they thanked me for taking time to see them. Their most valuable relationship and deepest responsibility, second only to the one with God, their son was the topic. They cared enough to both come, sit down, and talk about exactly how he is doing and what they can do to help him be his very best. And they thanked me. By the way, and it shouldn’t be surprising, their son is already a fine young man with great promise.
I still miss my little kids from the low income areas of town, the mean little guys who get kicked out of school, the children with un-empowered parents. But, it is such an honor and delight to work with families that truly care, that stay in touch, and who support me when I am working to stretch their children in knowledge, work habits, and wisdom. There is a gnawing place inside me that says my other little friends need me more. It just can’t stop me from loving working with this beautiful group of kids and families.
And, I continue to learn that the Phi Delta Kappa’s study of risk in children was too true in too many areas. Risk and pain in the midst of our culture of pleasure and consumption are pervasive in the lives of children. Any child can show up in pain. Every school has kids in deep need. I was there after school one day this week to talk down a little guy working himself into hysterics after misbehaving and getting caught in daycare. I was there today when a young man from across the hall who had spent the end of the day sitting in the office was left sitting in the hall while his parent talked to his teacher at length making sure everything was fair. And, one of mine from last year, a girl who I literally picture living on the edge of life’s cliff, a student who worked hard all last year with me to raise her academic and behavioral levels, a kid who has been suspended this year for going to get her other homework (without arranging permission to leave the room), met me on the way out of the building today. She brought me one of her school pictures.
If everything a person could get a thank you for was as wonderful as helping kids grow up, there would be a lot more thank-yous in the world.
Heading off to bed to rest up and teach teachers tomorrow with a prayer of thanks for those who remember to say thank-you, a prayer of support and strength for those who continue to serve in places without enough thank-yous, and gratitude to a God beyond comprehension who keeps changing my life plans and setting me in places where the feast is prepared, bountiful, and multiplied by sharing.
peace
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